Forgiving our parents is a core task of adulthood, and one of the most crucial kinds of forgiveness. We see our parents in our mates, in our friends, in our bosses, even in our children. When we've felt rejected by a parent and have remained in that state, we will inevitably feel rejected by these important others as well. But letting our parents off the hook, psychologist Robert Karen says, is the first step toward happiness, self-acceptance and maturity. Here are some thoughts to help the healing begin: Resolve resentment.Nursing resentments toward a parent does more than keep that parent in the doghouse. We get stuck there, too, forever the child, the victim, the have-not in the realm of love. Strange as it may seem, a grudge is a kind of clinging, a way of not separating, and when we hold a grudge against a parent, we are clinging not just to the parent, but more specifically to the bad part of the parent. It's as if we don't want to live our lives until we have this resolved and feel the security of their unconditional love. We do so for good reasons psychologically. But the result is just the opposite: We stay locked into the badness and we don't grow up. Develop realistic expectations.The sins of parents are among the most difficult to forgive. We expect the world of them, and we do not wish to lower our expectations. Decade after decade, we hold out the hope, often unconsciously, that they will finally do right by us. We want them to own up to all their misdeeds, to apologize, to make heartfelt pleas for our forgiveness. We want our parents to embrace us, to tell us they know we were good children, to undo the favoritism they've shown to a brother or sister, to take back their hurtful criticisms, to give us their praise. Hold on to the good.Most parents love their children, with surprisingly few exceptions. But no parent is perfect—which means that everyone has childhood wounds. If we're lucky, our parents were good enough for us to be able to hold on to the knowledge of their love for us and our love for them, even in the face of the things they did that hurt us. Foster true separation.To forgive is not to condone the bad things our parents have done. It's not to deny their selfishness, their rejections, their meanness, their brutality, or any of the other misdeeds, character flaws, or limitations that may attach to them. It is important to separate from our parents—which is to stop seeing ourselves as children who depend on them for our emotional well-being, to stop being their victims, to recognize that we are adults with some capacity to shape our own lives and the responsibility to do so. Let your parents back into your heart.When we do that, we can begin to understand the circumstances and limitations they labored under, recognize the goodness in them that our pain has pushed aside, feel some compassion perhaps, not only for the hard journey they had but also for the pain we have caused them. Commit to the journey.Getting to a forgiving place, finding the forgiving self inside us, is a long and complicated journey. We have to be ready to forgive. We have to want to forgive. The deeper the wound, the more difficult the process—which makes forgiving parents especially hard. Along the way, we may have to express our protest, we may have to be angry and resentful, we may even have to punish our parents by holding a grudge. But when we get there, the forgiveness we achieve will be a forgiveness worth having.
Bereavement and Loss
The death of a loved one can be the most stressful event in a person's life. A wide array of emotions can be experienced, such as sadness, anger, anxiety, guilt, and despair. Changes in sleep patterns and appetite can occur, as well as physical illness. These are all normal parts of grieving and the feelings can ebb and flow over time.
There is no "right way" and "wrong way" to grieve. Each person experiences grief in his or her own way, partly based on religious, cultural, social, and personal beliefs and partly because of the relationship with the person who died.
Bereavement has four basic phases which typically occur:
- Numbness and shock-usually occurs in the beginning and lasts a brief period. It is useful in helping people function through the initial funeral time period.
- Feeling of separation-when the feeling of loss or missing the loved one starts to occur.
- Disorganization-time period when the bereaved is easily distracted and might have difficulty concentrating or may feel restless.
- Reorganization-toward the end of the bereavement period when the person has begun to adjust to life without the loved one.
It is very important to seek out people who understand your loss. It is very important to seek out people who understand your loss. It may be friends, family, therapists, clergy, or support groups. It takes a long time to complete the grieving process, so you need to be patient to allow yourself the chance to grieve.
How can I help myself?
- Keep a journal-sometimes it is helpful to write down thoughts and feelings.
- Read books on loss-for some, reading about someone else's experiences with loss can be very helpful.
- Start with an activity which was relaxing-this can help in the beginning to get back to a normal cycle, and it can provide some stability and familiarity.
- Talk about the person who died, if you want to-even though it may be painful, talking about particular memories can be healing.
- If helpful, go to a support group-many people find groups to be a helpful place to talk about their grief.
When should you seek help?
- If grief is lasting over a year.
- If there is a major change in weight (either loss or gain).
- If suicidal thoughts are occurring.
- If there are continual difficulties with sleeping.
- If there is prolonged emotional distress.
Stay connected to your health care providers. You need to remember to take care of yourself. You need to contact them right away if you feel like you are very depressed and not getting better or if you are thinking about harming yourself.
What type of help is available?
Support groups for grieving individuals. Bereavement support groups provide a place to talk about grief, fears, and other feelings which can be there after the death of a loved one. Groups also help people learn from the experiences of others and are very beneficial for children and teenagers. If desired, contact your local hospice or hospital for information about a support group in your area.
Family therapy. "Family" means many things people to many people. It can be people related to you or other people who are very significant in your life. The experience of a loss touches everyone in your family. Family therapists are specially trained to understand the impact of loss on a family and can assist you through your bereavement process.
Books and journals. There are a wide variety of books available for people experiencing loss. Many people who are bereaved find these types of books to be helpful, especially those written by individuals who have experienced a similar loss themselves.
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Seven Blessings of the Tithe
Recently while watching Pat Robertson on the 700 Club, the Lord put something on my heart that I want to share with you.
Pat talked about the importance of the tithe, as mentioned in Malachi 3. While I was listening to him, I felt strongly that I needed to teach on the seven blessings of the tithe, too, for like Pat Robertson, I believe the tithe is very important to the Lord Jesus.
First of all, Malachi 3:10 teaches: “Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the Lord of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.”
Then the Lord promises, “And I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes, and he shall not destroy the fruits of your ground; neither shall your vine cast her fruit before the time in the field, saith the Lord of hosts” (verse 11).
SEVEN PROMISES In the next verse, the Lord gives us this most remarkable promise: “And all nations shall call you blessed: for ye shall be a delightsome land, saith the Lord of hosts” (verse 12). In this noteworthy portion of Scripture, we find the Lord’s command to bring “all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house.” The Lord clearly tells every believer that the tithe belongs to Him and His work.
The Lord even challenges us to test Him: “Prove me now herewith” (verse 10). This is the only time in Scripture that the Lord makes that offer. That is one of the most amazing invitations we have ever been given by the Lord Himself; that we, as God’s people, can prove Him in this matter.
Following His challenge in Malachi 3:10, He then begins to give us the seven most amazing blessings of the tithe:
- “If I will not open you the windows of heaven” (verse 10). The windows of heaven always deal with revival. The Lord promises to revive every person who obeys Him.
- “And pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it” (verse 10). Think about it! God Almighty declares clearly in His Word that the tither will be prosperous—so prosperous, in fact, that there will not be room enough to receive the prosperity and blessings God has in store for the one who obeys Him.
- “I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes” (verse 11). Years ago when I taught on this subject in Orlando, I discovered that rebuke, to my amazement, means “to cripple” or “to paralyze.” God Almighty will actually cripple the enemy on your behalf when you tithe. The tithe is so important to the Lord that He promises to paralyze and cripple the enemy so that he will not be able to touch your life! Remember, the Lord said to prove Him. These things will happen, for this is the Word of the Lord!
- “He shall not destroy the fruits of your ground” (verse 11). This means that the enemy, whom God has crippled on your behalf, will not be able to touch your finances. The “fruits of your ground” refers to your money. The enemy will not be able to touch your money as a result of your obedience to the Lord in the tithe.
- “Neither shall your vine cast her fruit before the time in the field, saith the Lordof hosts” (verse 11). It is remarkable that in John 15:5, Jesus said, “I am the vine, ye are the branches.” The vine, therefore, means the family, and God gives this amazing promise to the tither when He says that the enemy will not touch your family, if you obey the Lord.
- “All nations shall call you blessed” (verse 12). In this most amazing blessing and promise, God will bless and prosper you so that the nations of the world will see the blessings of God upon you. In other words, you will be a mighty witness of the power and blessings of God.
- “Ye shall be a delightsome land, saith the Lord of hosts” (verse 12). Delightsome means “highly desired.” As you obey the Lord with the tithe, God will so highly desire you that He will use you.
These seven most amazing blessings of the tithe can be summarized:

- You will have revival.
- You will experience great prosperity.
- The enemy will be crippled and will not touch your life.
- Your finances will be safe.
- Your family will be safe from the hand of the enemy.
- You will be a great witness of the power and blessings of the Lord to the nations.
- You will be highly desired, and God will use you for His glory!
THE STOREHOUSE Before giving these seven blessings in Malachi 3, the Lord very clearly mentions the tithes and offerings in verse 8: “Will a man rob God? Yet ye have robbed me. But ye say, Wherein have we robbed thee? In tithes and offerings” (Malachi 3:8). Then He says, “Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse” (verse 10).
The “storehouse” is not your local church! Many years ago, I taught that the storehouse was the local church. As I have continued to study the Word, travel the world, and mature in the Lord, I have come to realize that the storehouse is not the local building but the ministry that feeds your life.
Any ministry that feeds you the Word of God is that storehouse! The Word of God is clear on this, for He says, “Bring ye all the tithe into the storehouse.” The tithe belongs to the ministry that gives you fresh bread and the meat of God’s Word.
As you support the storehouse that the Lord has placed into your life, the Lord has promised to send these seven supernatural blessings upon your life!
If this ministry has been that storehouse for you, then it is the law of God that you should give your tithes and offerings to this ministry. In fact, according to the Word of God, you should support whatever ministry God uses to feed your life.
I want to share an important truth with you. The Word of God is clear also in Deuteronomy 26 that the tithe does not belong to the dead. In the midst of teaching on the tithe, the Lord tells us, “Nor given ought thereof for the dead” (Deuteronomy 26:14). If you want to receive the seven supernatural blessings of the tithe, make sure you are not giving your tithe or offering to a dead work.
If you give to a dead ministry, there will be no result! But when you give to a ministry that is alive and preaching the Gospel to the world, then these promises will be yours.
BREAKING DEBT FROM YOUR LIFE When I saw this powerful truth and began applying it in my own life—as I became a tither myself—God truly broke the debt from my life.
Debt is broken by only one thing—giving to the Lord’s work!
I want to see the Lord bless your life. It is your tithe that opens heaven, and it is your offering that brings prosperity your way. The Lord requires both, the tithe (at least 10 percent) and the offering (extra money that the Lord directs you to give). We cannot be blessed without the tithe, and we cannot see abundance without both the tithe and the offering.
The Lord clearly states in His Word to give both tithes and offerings.
Today, give both to the Lord. Sow your seed. And as you give your tithe and sow your seed-offering this month, lay your hands on that seed and claim the seven supernatural promises of Malachi 3. |
Preparing Children for Greatness
Don't Do Your Kids A Favor: Help Them Learn From Their Mistakes
"Parents and caregivers often want to spare their children and teenagers the pain of failure, but we must remember that failing and making mistakes are necessary elements of growth, development, and maturity." —Beth Clark
Failure. It's part of life from the time we are very young until we are very old. It happens to all of us, no matter how hard we try to do things "right." Parents and caregivers often want to spare their children and teenagers the pain of failure, but we must remember that failing and making mistakes are necessary elements of growth, development, and maturity. Learn to encourage and affirm the children and young people under your influence when they fail. With good coaching, even the youngest among us can gain the proper perspective on failure and mistakes and see these things as stepping stones to success.
Teach Them that Failure is not Fatal
Help children and young people put failure in perspective. Explain to them that failure does not mean "the end of the world." Maybe a child or teenager in your life fails to make a school sports team or the cast of the school play, but that does not mean he or she cannot play on a church or neighborhood team or put on dramatic productions for family and friends. Don't let their dreams die because of failure or disappointment. Instead, help them re-route their energies into further developing their skills so they can succeed next time. Help them practice what they need to practice in order to succeed in the future, and use encouraging words and phrases such as: "You are doing better every day" or "I am so proud of you!"
Teach Them to Learn from their Mistakes
Webster's Dictionary defines mistake as "an error in action, opinion, or judgment caused by poor reasoning, carelessness, insufficient knowledge, etc." In other words, mistakes are not intentional; they result from lack of training, experience, or knowledge. At the same time, they lead to training, experience, and knowledge. Teach the children and young people in your life that every mistake is an opportunity. When they make mistakes, ask questions such as:
- What can you do to keep this from happening next time?
- What did you learn from this mistake?
- If you don't want to make this mistake again, what needs to change?
Look for the positive lessons to be learned from the mistakes your children make. Ask them to identify what they've learned after they make mistakes and help them see the specific ways each mistake teaches them a lesson that will help them do better next time. Remind them of the old saying, "Everyone makes mistakes," and encourage them to use their mistakes to help them move toward success.
Teach Them that Failure is not Final
Children and teenagers respond differently to failure. For some, failure is just what they need to be determined to try again with renewed effort and energy. For others, failure discourages them completely, makes them afraid to try anything again, and inspires them only to give up. Remind them every time they fail that "there's always next time." Do everything you can to keep them encouraged in a healthy way—not trying again out of anger over a past failure or refusing to try again because of embarrassment. Above all, remind them often that you love and value them simply because of who they are, not because of what they can or cannot do. That way, they'll never feel like a failure in your eyes!
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The Importance of Early Childhood Cognitive Development
Early childhood generally refers to the period from birth through age 5. A child's cognitive development during early childhood, which includes building skills such as pre-reading, language, vocabulary, and numeracy, begins from the moment a child is born. Developmental scientists have found that the brain acquires a tremendous amount of information about language in the first year of life even before infants can speak. By the time babies utter or understand their first words, they know which particular sounds their language uses, what sounds can be combined to create words, and the tempo and rhythm of words and phrases.
There is a strong connection between the development a child undergoes early in life and the level of success that the child will experience later in life. For example, infants who are better at distinguishing the building blocks of speech at 6 months are better at other more complex language skills at 2 and 3 years of age and better at acquiring the skills for learning to read at 4 and 5 years of age. Not surprisingly, a child's knowledge of the alphabet in kindergarten is one of the most significant predictors of what that child's tenth grade reading ability will be.
When young children are provided an environment rich in language and literacy interactions and full of opportunities to listen to and use language constantly, they can begin to acquire the essential building blocks for learning how to read. A child who enters school without these skills runs a significant risk of starting behind and staying behind.
Early Childhood Care and Education
Young children are cared for in a wide variety of settings. According to data from the National Center for Education Statistics, 38 percent of children age 5 or younger receive care on a regular basis from parents only. The remaining 62 percent of children are in one or more arrangements, including care by other relatives (24 percent), non-relatives (17 percent), or center-based programs (34 percent), including Head Start (6 percent). Children between the ages of 3 and 5 are more likely than children younger than 3 to be cared for in a center-based program, such as child care and Head Start. Children under the age of 3 are more likely to be in the care of a parent than are children older than 3.
Parents are a child's first and most important teachers. It is significant that nearly 40 percent of young children are cared for primarily by a parent. The Bush Administration believes it is important to support parents and families in their most important task in life raising their children through several means, including providing them information about early childhood development.
How Food Affects Behavior
By Gailon Totheroh, CBN News Science & Medical Reporter
CBNNews - There's a double threat out there that may help explain poor school performance, criminal behavior, alcoholism, and the growing numbers of Alzheimer's patients.
The possible culprits: food additives and junky diets. Dr. Russell Blaylock says it's a double whammy because of high sugar content and starchy carbohydrates. Those carbs, too, act like sugar in the body.
Blaylock is a retired neurosurgeon, clinical nutritionist, professor of biology at Belhaven College, and author of numerous books. In addition to writing a monthly health newsletter, The Blaylock Wellness Report," he recently put his lecture Nutrition and Behavior onto DVD.
The Sugar Syndrome
On that DVD, Blaylock explains the sugar syndrome: "Why would sugar have such a profound influence on brain function and psychological function? Now when the sugar is in excess, it produces excess release of insulin."
That is, if the insulin release is excessive, the blood sugar falls. That's known as hypoglycemia.
Among other effects, hypoglycemia causes the brain to secrete glutamate in levels that can cause agitation, depression, anger, anxiety, panic attacks and an increase in suicide risk.
Glutamate is a messenger molecule in the body. Tiny releases of glutamate play an important role in the body, but any excess can be dangerous - especially to the brain and nervous system.
This glutamate is identical to the flavor-enhancing monosodium glutamate (MSG) and its chemical cousins found in thousands of food products.
Consumed in food and added to the effects of sugar and simple carbs, serious excesses can result. For instance, repeated hypoglycemic episodes will increase the risk of neurodegenerative diseases, such as Alzheimer's disease, Parkinson's and ALS (Lou Gehrig's).
This low blood sugar can affect people in many different ways - especially considering the high numbers of vulnerable individuals.
It is estimated that 15 to 20 percent of U.S. adults are hypoglycemic. In children, the response is often hyperactivity. In both children and adults, there can be violent and aggressive behavior. In older people, there can be mental confusion -- as the low sugar fails to fuel the brain and making it more prone to Alzheimer's.
That hypoglycemic confusion is apparently what happened to Jack Samuels when he went out to grab milk at the grocery.
"I just, I remember getting way out into the countryside and pulling to the side of the road and trying to sort of calm myself and think where did I come from?" he recalled.
Samuels, a retired hospital administrator, had accidentally consumed some MSG, the flavor- enhancing food additive. MSG can cause hypoglycemia on its own.
What's Lurking in Food Labels
Samuels is also an activist against MSG, and heads the Truth in Labeling Campaign. He diligently tries to avoid all forms of it, but has struggled because there are so many hidden sources.
Food labels will sometimes list monosodium glutamate, but MSG usually appears under deceptive names like hydrolyzed corn, autolyzed yeast, broth, textured protein and even natural flavors. ---hidden sources link here or at end?
Another danger is alcohol - because it acts just like sugar.
Blaylock explains the process: "The alcohol is the source of tremendous energy. And so when their blood sugar falls, they drink the alcohol, they feel better. And their blood sugar falls again, they drink more alcohol."
One study found an astonishing 97 percent of alcoholics to be hypoglycemic. Yet another study showed that when an alcoholic's hypoglycemia is treated with nutrition, 70 percent of them become sober. When other alcoholism treatment methods are used, only 25 percent or less find relief from their addiction.
And it may be partly the alcohol component of the diet soda sweetener aspartame that makes it hypoglycemic. Blaylock says the aspartate in aspartame acts like MSG, stimulating actual glutamate receptors in the pancreas to release and increase insulin.
That brings out more dietary danger, according to Blaylock, "So you tend to eat and snack and nibble. And you gain weight. Monosodium glutamate will make you do the same thing. Now the food manufacturers know this. That's why they put so much MSG in food."
In addition, the MSG additives, also known as excitotoxins, can destroy the neurons in a crucial part of the brain. This can result in gross obesity.
And then there are the effects of just regular sugar on children. One study gave kids sugar equal to one soda. As a result, their test scores went down. In fact, at one hour after the sugar, they made twice as many mistakes. The sugar-loaded students also showed more "inappropriate behavior" during free play.
Safe Foods
So what diet is anti-hypoglycemic? That would be lean meat and lots of fresh fruits and vegetables. For supplements, a good multivitamin and some fish oil are considered quite helpful.
Another key is limiting sugars and starches. That would include sugar itself as well as products with corn syrup. Most fruit juices are very sugary as well. Then there are the white culprits: white bread, white rice, white pasta and white potatoes.
And by avoiding most processed food, you'll be more likely to steer clear of the MSG that so often lurks among the ingredients of many processed foods such as soups, varieties of canned tuna, flavored chips, box mixes, and frozen prepared selections.
There's even some evidence that eating the good and avoiding the bad is what worked for ex-convicts on parole. One study found that a good diet enabled parolees to maintain good behavior over half of the time. Those with a bad diet fared less than half as well.
With those results, perhaps the government is looking into the connection between nutrition and behavior.
Samuels comments, "There is very little financial reward for a researcher to find the cause of a disease and consequently most of the research dollars go to the development of drugs to treat a disease -- because there's a lot of money involved there."
He has spent years trying to get government officials to his pleas for better research and more truthful food labeling.
Blaylock says think of the kids -- and start teaching them about nutrition. That could make for a better home life today and future adults better able to excel in the world.
Learning to Forgive
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Love ... What a powerful experience to know you are with the one person you believe to be the only person right for you! There's a magical moment when you realize you can't imagine ever spending another day without this person next to you. Every thought is consumed with fantasies and incredible expectations for the future! Sound familiar?
You might be experiencing these very feelings this moment. Excitement, Anticipation, and Confidence. Amy and I (Michael) were in this mode just two weeks after we started dating! We actually discussed marriage on the second day! There was no doubt for either of us that we were meant to be together. I felt like nothing or no one could ever prevent our being together "till death do us part". That is, till I made a visit to Conroe, Texas just two weeks after we started dating.
Amy gave me permission to use this illustration from our own lives because it was such a major turning point in our relationship, TWICE.
I couldn't believe I was on a plane going to see the one woman I had dreamed about for three years! I met Amy as a freshman at Baylor and she was a sophomore. I became a Yell-leader, which is just a masculine way to say I was a Cheerleader, just to be close to her and to try and win her over! My plans didn't quite work out like I'd hoped, for when I made the team and became closer to Amy, I found out she was practically engaged. Which turned out to be the case only three months after making the Yell-leading squad, which Amy had been the only reason for being on the squad.
Obviously things worked out, and it is a long and incredible story of God's grace and miraculous power. But only two weeks into our budding relationship, Amy shared something that would change the course of our relationship forever.
We had just spent a wonderful day on Lack Conroe. Jet-skiing, sun tanning, and having fun in the humid and stifling heat of Conroe, Texas, just North of Houston. It felt like I was living a dream, which was partly true because a dream was all I had for three years prior to this day. Everything seemed perfect, everything seemed blessed by God, well, almost everything.
After spending the day at Lake Conroe, Amy and I were sitting on the couch upstairs in her parents house. I don't remember exactly what we were doing, but I remember vividly what happened next. As we were sitting on the couch, Amy looked up at me cautiously. "I have to tell you something," she said in a quiet voice. "OK," I quickly responded like it was no big deal. "Well, it's serious, and I don't want to hide anything from you in this relationship," she said with hesitation. I wanted to stop her, because her face appeared to say, "this might end what we have here!" Which I didn't want any part of, but thanks to God, what Amy shared next opened my eyes to a new world of the power of forgiveness.
"I want you to know that I'm not a virgin." Amy almost seemed to grimace at the sound of her own voice, like she was now something less than what she'd been only seconds before. Luckily the statement took me by surprise, so I didn't say anything at first. This allowed Amy to open up even more, "I wanted you to know because I wanted to give you the opportunity to end this relationship before it got any more serious."
"End this relationship!" I thought to myself, "Did I just hear that?" The one woman I've dreamt about for three years now believes she is not worth me pursuing any longer because she's not a virgin. I was stunned. Not to hear she wasn't a virgin, but because she thought I might not want to date her because of it.
Thankfully God had prepared me for this moment years before when my brother shared with me the same news. Amy began to cry ever so slightly, and I noticed the gleam of her tears running down the side of her cheek in the dim light of the room. Since this moment, Amy has said that what happened next freed her to experience the full weight of God's forgiveness and allowed her to move gracefully into her future by forgiving her past.
I'd like to admit that what I did was all my idea. But I would be less than honest in doing so. However, I am glad it happened. As we both sat on the couch in an awkward silence, Amy wondering what our future was to be, and myself wondering what to say next. God reminded me of a story.
I didn't say a word, but instead, got up from the couch and went into the bathroom. I came out of the bathroom with a bucket and cloth. She must have been confused. Still remaining silent, I knelt down before Amy in a humble fashion and began cleansing her feet with the cloth and bucket of water. The moment is forever etched in the memory of our beginning.
With every stroke of the cloth touching her bare feet, I reminded Amy of all the ways she was blessed by God. I reminded her of the innocence that was hers in Christ. I reminded her that if I expected to marry someone perfect, I'd never get married. We both started weeping! It was magical for the two of us.
This moment is what makes forgiveness a necessity for any relationship, especially the relationship of a husband and wife. A privilege of being an adult is to experience life's greatest joys and its greatest sorrows. We are now capable of very important decisions affecting the rest of their lives. Our decisions may require the seeking or accepting of forgiveness.
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Time for Flu Shots
CBNNews.com - The Centers for Disease Control is advising a record number of Americans to get a flu shot this fall. They report about 86 percent of the population or 261 million people will need to be innoculated.
For the first time, the government is recommending that all children ages 5 to 18 be vaccinated. That's an additional 30 million more school children than ever before.
Also, children aged 6-months to 8 years should get two flu shots at least one month a part, because a single shot may not give them full protection.
"Get out there and get protected and protect others and for sure protect your children," said Dr. Julie Gerberding, director of the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.
"People should start getting vaccinated now, yesterday actually," added Dr. William Schaffner, president-elect of the National Foundation for Infectious Diseases.
Also on CDC's get-vaccinated list: Anyone 50 or older. Health care workers; caregivers and relatives of the high-risk; and pregnant women. Newborns can't be vaccinated, but a fetus does absorb protection from a vaccinated mother.
The CDC says unlike years past, there's an ample supply of vaccine with 143 million to 146 million doses available.
Each year, the flu kills about 36,000 Americans and sends another 200,000 to the hospital. Children of any age that appear healthy can die from the flu - 86 last year, with an age range from babies to teens.
Perhaps the most stunning fact from the CDC -- just 42 percent of health care workers get vaccinated. These are people who could be infecting patients in doctors' offices and hospitals.
CDC's Gerberding called it "unconscionable" for health workers to avoid vaccination: "This is a patient safety issue."
The flu vaccine costs around $25. Choices include the old-fashioned shot for all ages, and the nasal vaccine FluMist, which can be used in healthy people ages 2 to 49.
More than 140 schools around the country are scheduling flu-vaccination days, some with free vaccine, according FluMist maker MedImmune Inc.
Keeping Seafood Safe and Plentiful
NOAA.gov - New figures show that Americans eat more than 16 pounds of seafood per person each year. But what to eat, how much, and the availability of certain seafood gets confusing.
Americans eat everything from salmon caught in Alaska and shrimp raised in farms off the China coast, to orange roughy from the deep trenches of the Southern Pacific. Our appetite for seafood is large and growing, and we need help weeding through all of the information.
That's why NOAA developed FishWatch.noaa.gov, a comprehensive web site that offers valuable information on availability, safety, quality, preparation, and health guidelines for your favorite seafood -- all in an easy-to-read format. You'll learn the current population status of your favorite seafood, as well as how to effectively shop for and safely store your seafood.
On FishWatch.noaa.gov, you can find information on about 80 of the most common species that are harvested, farmed, and eaten in the United States. For each species you can learn about population size, fishing practices, import/export statistics, photos, factoids, nutritional content, and more.
Healthy Fisheries Support a Healthy Economy Seafood is big business in the United States, and NOAA is working hard to help ensure that consumers get the best seafood possible, while maintaining healthy fish stocks.
Healthy fisheries provide more than a great meal; they provide jobs, recreation and more for millions of Americans. In 2007, commercial fishers in the U.S. caught more than nine billion pounds of seafood, worth more than $4 billion. And consumers in the U.S. spent approximately $68 billion on seafood. It's been a challenge for stocks to keep up with our demand.
The nation imports about 84 percent of its seafood, and at least half of that seafood is farmed. America's aquaculture industry, though vibrant and diverse, currently meets only 5 to 7 percent of U.S. demand for seafood. And the majority of that is catfish. Marine products such as U.S. farmed oysters, clams, mussels and salmon supply only 1.5 percent of American seafood demand. Expanding U.S. sustainable aquaculture would provide consumers with even more affordable, locally and regionally produced seafood.
NOAA's Aquaculture Program Aquaculture is the fastest growing form of food production in the world. It is also a significant source of protein for people in many countries, including the United States. Globally, nearly half the fish consumed by humans is produced by fish farms. This worldwide trend toward aquaculture production is expected to continue. At the same time, demand for safe, healthy seafood also is expected to grow.
NOAA's National Marine Fisheries Service is working hard to promote sustainable fisheries, protect fish habitats, and reduce wasteful fishing practices as well as prevent lost economic potential associated with overfishing, declining species and degraded habitats. We assess and predict the status of fish stocks, ensure compliance with fisheries regulations, and work to reduce wasteful fishing practices -- all to ensure the continued availability of safe and nutritious seafood.
Visit www.FishWatch.noaa.gov to learn more about sustainable fisheries and seafood safety, and www.aquaculture.noaa.gov to learn more about NOAA's Aquaculture Program.
Life with Victory
Living a life without sin seems so attractive - and so unattainable. Is it really possible to live a life without sin? The Lord Jesus did, but we cannot, for our bodies of "weakness" have yet to be raised in "power" (1 Cor. 15:43). But the promise is that one day our corruption will put on incorruption, and sin will be finally and fully defeated in our lives. In the meantime, as John says, "If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. [But] If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1: 8, 9). But I must say that the power to live victoriously is available to us moment by moment because of what the Lord Jesus did on Calvary's cross for you and me.
The writer of Hebrews says that "We do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin" (Heb. 4:15). This is the reason why you and I must go to Him continually in our moments of weakness. We will find Him always able to deliver form the "guttermost" to the uttermost. As Hebrews also declares, "He is able to save to the uttermost those who come to God through Him, since He always lives to make intercession for them" (Heb. 7:25).
The same Holy Spirit that enabled the Lord Jesus to resist the temptations of satan is ready to give us protection. The Word declares, "For in that He Himself has suffered, being tempted, He is able to aid those who are tempted" (Heb. 2:18).
What should we do if we stumble? Scripture declares: "If we confess our sin, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). Quit justifying, qualifying, and explaining - agree with God that your sins is just that, sin. And if you really do agree with God about that behavior, you won't come back to it. You will have turned your back on that sin, changed your mind, and repented. Then you will be free to enjoy the unfettered fellowship of the Holy Spirit in your life again.
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